Aquaria

Adam baru sampai nie.....

"Banyaknye ikan...."

"eeiiiii banyaknye gigi dia"


"ambik la dia..umi kasi dia kat ikan nie..."


"Adam lapar...dahaga"

"Adam nak balik"

To those who are married, .. Not married .. and soon to be married MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to lether know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw awaythe chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, wedidn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn'twant anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy isholding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over tenmeters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I puther down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized thatI hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hairwas graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown sothin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitternessin her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carrymum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become anessential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closerand hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid Imight change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms,walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Herhand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly;it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when Iheld her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone toschool. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our lifelacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly withoutlocking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, Ido not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Doyou have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, Isaid, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because sheand I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't loveeach other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and thenslammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and droveaway.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowersfor my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiledand wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.

The small details of your lives are what really matter in arelationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah.These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage.

Rungutan sendiri.... hati seorang kak long (Umi Adam's)

Sebagai Anak sulung banyak benda yg kena buat untuk adikseorang nie nak kawin (mak cik Adam).kecian Abah, Abah tak sehat, Malas nak susahkan Mak n AbahSo Kami adik beradik berpakat bahagi-bahagikan keje. Mak n Abah takpayah pening kepala yer...just duk diam-diam tau..Pasal duit pun jangan risau pandaila kami adikberadik kongsi sikit seorang.k.long n adik-adik tak nak duit Abah n Mak...Bukan apa, duit tu simpan untuk hari yang memerlukan, sekarang nie belanja untukhari sakit bukan nyer murah...mahal..Biar k.long n adik-adik settle kan semua keje kawin nie yer.Kalau dulu masa k.long kawin k.long pakai duit sendiri dari a to z w/o using any single cent from both of u. So it same bila siti kawin jugak.Although she still young kalau dah jodoh let her marry.Bukan apa takut apa-apa berlaku nanti bila di halang-halang orang yang nak kawin nie.We have to support them untuk kerja-kerja yang baik nie.So let us work together k..Masa Kak long kawin pun kita sama-sama jayakan juga.So let us work hard n smart again utk adik sayang nie.Semoga hari yang tiba akan mengembirakan bagi orang yang nak kawin (bakal pengantin baru)n org yg buat persiapan utk diaorg kawin nie.hehehehe...
Untuk Siti...ingat jangan lupa kak.long n semua abg2 serta adik yang selalu kasi awak support pada masa yg awak perlukan kami.We always wish u all the best and happy forever.
Now we have to Go go Chaiyuk untuk memeriahkan majlis perkahwinan ini nanti.Dear beloved siblings job,nyah,yang and adik...we have work together ok...
This is check list so..pandai-pandaila u all semua berkerjasama ok..anything refer k.long tau..bukan apa k.long takut nanti overlapping ke..or tukar rancangan ke.. ye la.. nyah n k.long stay Kl so faham-faham la..
check list
- baju nikah n accesories (siti,nyah n k.long)
- baju bersanding n accesories (nyah)
- perhiasan hantaran (k.long n nyah)
- Hiasan bilik (K.long n Nyah n yang)
- pandu arah (yob n yang)
- Tempah makanan Jemputan n Pengantin (Siti n K.long)
- Tempah khemah n mejakerusi (Siti n K.long)
- souvenior for guest (adik,yob,nyah,k.long)
- Kompang (abah n k.long)
- PA System (nyah n yob n yang)
- photograper(abg long n k.long)
- Edar Card(Semua org termasuk abah n mak)

Seminit aje untuk mengenali kawan..

Hanya seminit diperlukan untuk mendapat sahabat baik, sejam untuk menghargainya, sehari untuk menyayanginya, tapi sepanjang hidup untuk melupakannya perkara yang anda tak perasan atau saja tak ada perasaan.......
1. Sekurang-kurangnya Ada 5 orang dalam dunia ini menyayangi anda dan sanggup mati kerana anda.
2. Sekurang-kurangnya ada 15 orang dalam dunia ini menyayangi anda dalam beberapa cara.
3. Sebab utama seseorang membenci anda adalah kerana dia ingin menjadi seperti anda.
4. Senyuman daripada anda boleh membawa kebahagiaan kepada seseorang walaupun dia tidak menyukai anda.
5. Setiap malam ada seseorang mengingati anda sebelum dia tidur.
6. Anda amat bermakna dalam hidup seseorang.
7. Kalau bukan kerana anda, seseorang itu tidak akan hidup bahagia..
8. Anda seorang yang istimewa dan unik.
9. Seseorang yang anda tidak ketahui menyayangi anda.
10. Apabila anda membuat kesilapan yang sangat besar, ada hikmah di sebaliknya.
11. Sekiranya anda merasakan anda dipinggirkan, fikirlah semula; mungkin anda yang meminggirkan mereka.
12. Apabila anda terfikir anda tidak mempunyai peluang untuk mendapatkans esuatu yang anda ingini, mungkin anda tidak akan memperolehinya, tetapi sekiranya anda percaya pada diri sendiri lambat-laun anda akan memperolehinya.
13. Kenangilah segala pujian yang anda terima. Lupakan segala maki hamun,caci & cela.
14. Jangan takut untuk meluahkan perasaan anda; anda akan merasa senangbila seseorang mengetahuinya.
15. Sekiranya anda mempunyai sahabat baik, ambillah masa untuk memberitahunya yang dia adalah yang terbaik.

Hanya seminit diperlukan untuk mendapat sahabat baik, sejam untukmenghargainya, sehari untuk menyayanginya, tapi sepanjang hidup untuk melupakannya.

Bila Allah cepat makbulkan Doamu, Maka DIA Menyayangimu, Bila DIA LambatMakbulkan doamu, Maka DIA Ingin Mengujimu, Bila DIA Tidak Makbulkan Doamu,Maka Dia Merancang Sesuatu Yang lebih Baik Untukmu. Oleh itu, Sentiasalah Bersangka Baik Pada ALLAH Dalam Apa Jua Keadaan Pun...Kerana Kasih sayangALLAH Itu Mendahului KemurkaanNya..."

Adakah anda tahu hubungan antara 2 biji mata anda ??
Mereka berkedip bersama...........,
Bergerak bersama........,Menangis bersama........,
Melihat bersama dan............,Tidur bersama..........
Meskipun mereka tidak pernah melihat antara satu sama lain.....
PERSAHABATAN seharusnya seperti itu.............
Kehidupan akan berasa KOSONG tanpa KAWAN .............

Mother in Law

"A long time ago in China , a girl named Li-Li got married & went to
live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li
found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.
Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by
many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized Li-
Li constantly.
Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never
stopped arguing and fighting.
But what made the situation even worse was that, according to
ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and
obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was
causing Li-Li's poor husband D great distress.
Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-! law's bad temper and
dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it!
Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold
herbs.
She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some
poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.
Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, "Li-Li, I will help
you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I
tell you."
Li-Li said, "Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to
do."Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes
with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, "You can't use a quick-
acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would
cause people to become suspicious Therefore, I have given you a
number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every
other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these
herbs in her serving.
Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect you, when she dies,
you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. "Don't
argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen." Li-
Li was so happy.
She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of
murdering her mother-in-law.
Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served
the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what
Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her
temper!r, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own
mother.
After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li
had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she
almost never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her
mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and
easier to get along with.
The mother-in-law's attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to
love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and
relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in- law one could ever
find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like
a real mother and daughter.
Li-Li's husband was very happy to see what was happening. One day,
Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again She
said, "Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from
killing my mother-in-law. She's changed into such a nice woman, and
I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of
the poison I gave her."
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li-Li, there's nothing to
worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were
vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and
your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the
love which you gave to her."

HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will
treat you? There is a wise Chinese saying: "The person who loves
others will also be loved in return." God might be trying to work in
another person's life through you. Send this to your friends and
spread the POWER OF LOVE."